Nigerian men are always in a rush when it comes to sex- sex expert says
Excerpts from the interview below..
How would you describe the Nigerian man when it comes to sex?The Nigerian man is always in a rush when it comes to sex. They rush into it and quickly rush out once they "come". Every driver that wants an accident-free trip must drive safely, know his road signs, have good driving skills and be a good observer. This is also true with sex because marital sex is a journey and not to be done in a rush. Those who want to succeed in marriage give their sex life a lot of attention and sex is what makes it different and wonderful. So, for no reason must a spouse "beg" or "plead" for sex from her partner. Rather, good sex should be given mutually at all times" Continue...
Why then do you think that the Nigerian man rush into and out of sex?
Even
though a penis is controlled by the nervous system, it still has a mind
of its own. Every woman loves foreplay but the African man has not
much time for those sweet touching of a woman's body or genital before
sex, they see it as a waste of time. If men tend to rush through
foreplay, if at all they want to do it, they do it mildly and hurriedly.
This is because they are ever ready the moment they have an erection.
Delaying intercourse when they have an erection and a willing woman
nearby? That sounds idiotic to them because they see it as a waste of
their precious time. A true Nigerian woman is not frigid. It is the way
and manner a Nigerian man, lets say a black man, gives sex to her that
makes a black woman frigid. A Nigerian man goes out from his own point
of need and not from the woman's point of need. They rush into the
woman's private part and rush out. They see the woman as an object to
release into. They don't care whether she has an orgasm. All they are
after is about themselves. They fail to realize that she has her sexual
Libido which should be touched or aroused before dipping their manhood
into her. But we let them know that they should never rush the woman. A
man should ask a woman to give him different styles and positions during
sex. She should be free to ask for sex whenever she feels the urge. Our
men should allow the women to have sex the way they enjoy doing it too.
It shouldn't be just the Adam and Eve style where the man commands her
to open and raise her legs and all of a sudden he rushes inside
immediately. This means she has just been legally raped. Ask a woman
what she wants in bed or during sex, she will tell you she wants to be
romanced, touched, kissed, she wants to be friendly. She wants to be
bounced with her partner first and this will really make her come easily
and sweetly. She will never be frigid if the man presses the right
buttons in her because sex to a woman is emotion and she can trade sex
for affections because he wants sex. The moment she gets affection from
her man, she will be able to open up well for her man to come inside
her. So a woman you can easily go into her heart is a woman you can
easily get into her legs. Before sex, a woman will want the man to start
with talk even if the talk is not relevant but she just needs your
attention. She will want to be touched all over but not immediately at
the main point of her body so that so it does not appear like you are
only interested in getting in-between her legs. Give her the attention,
get bonded, get connected first because she wants to feel you. So sex to
a man is a show of love he derives during sex or after the sex while
that of a woman is a show of emotion she gets before sex. So if you
don't understand what a woman really needs in sex, she will tighten her
legs and lie down like a log or dead body lying in state because she is
not feeling the man emotionally" she said
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