Did you know that women have the ability to experience eleven different forms of orgasm?
Imagine being the type of sexual lover that knows more about a woman’s
body than she does. How many women know about this intense and
pleasurable subject? Not many, sad to say.
The point is, you are
not the only one who is clueless in bed, and greater communication and
attention for your partner’s needs will only boost her endorphins.
Simply put: she will want to do more for you as well.
Most
men are honored if they have the knowledge that a woman is capable of
having a orgasm at all. We know this because we have learned from them.
The vast majority of the male species is ignorant about their feminine
bed-lusts. And the sad fact is that they are okay with this.
So
what is the origin of this issue? The answer is basic, and
coincidentally unexpected: men harbor an intense fear of feminine
sexuality in our society.
The majority of women are only aware of
two orgasms that their bodies can encounter (whether or not they have
ever experienced them is another thing), and, unfortunately, this even
holds true in the post-Feminist community. Ladies, looks like you’ve
been cheating yourselves.
So , without much ado, let us take a trip.
The Clitoral Orgasm
This
is the most common form of orgasm and it results from direct contact
with the clitoris. Strong feelings stem from the clitoris and send
pleasurable waves throughout a woman’s entire body. A woman’s clitoris
is the most sensitive area on her body – with twice as many stimulatory
nerve endings as the male penis.
If you are a guy, picture all of
the nerve endings in the penis compacted into an area as tiny as a
marble. The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that feelings
of arousal are always felt there on some degree. That is why the
clitoris is so responsive to different kinds of touch.
The
clitoris’s sensitivity can be completely opposite from woman to woman.
There are women that may prefer a lighter touch while other women get
enjoyment from a more intense stimulation. And for a portion of women,
the clitoris is so delicate that contacting the clit directly is often
not comfortable and can sometimes be aggravating.
After an orgasm,
the clit often becomes extremely sensitive, to the point where physical
contact could be painful. As a good sexual partner, you must be aware
of this and grant a woman some minutes of rest before going at it again.
This
kind of female orgasm can be done in a few different variations: There
is oral stimulation. Ladies, if your partner is not aware of how to
perform oral sex on women, still let your partner do it for you. But you
must guide him into doing this the proper way. Guys, when using your
hand, be sure to use her own natural lubrication, or a water-based
lubricant.
With sex toys, use lubrication as well.
A
clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as
“less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and
good clitoral stimulation adds much to the stagnant sex life.
The Vaginal Orgasm
This
kind of female orgasm concerns the vaginal walls, and remains focused
in either the pelvic or lower stomach areas. It can also spread upward
and out depending on the intensity of the experience. The uterus, pelvic
muscles, and sometimes the anus will start to contract. These
contractions are strong and may even push out anything stimulating the
vagina.
This kind of orgasm takes a bit of time to reach, and
rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get there. A great sexual
partner will communicate with their woman to figure out which position
is best for her to achieve an orgasm. And a great partner will also try
not to ejaculate before she does. Remember: “Ladies always come first.”
A
good deal of women describe vaginal orgasm to be “less intense” than
clitoral stimulation, however, they do feel it a bit more “deeply.” This
orgasm is felt as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes from deep
inside the vagina.
The G-Spot Orgasm
This orgasm starts in
the G-Spot and can stay there while climaxing, or it will intensely rush
throughout the entire female body. When a woman is sexually aroused,
the tissue around her urethra becomes filled with blood from her
paraurethral glands that produce and fill with prostatic fluid. This
area on the front wall of the vagina is that same mysterious and
sensitive spot: the G-Spot.
The process is actually similar to a
male erection. And, as a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect.” If
you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a female “boner.”
The only thing separating the two is that, for women, it all happens on
the inside of the vagina. There are a few ways to stimulate a woman’s
G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction motions are the best for
reaching this type of orgasm. Try using a special Tantric sensual
massage – it tends to stimulate this section of a female’s body. This
orgasm will often lead to female ejaculation.
This kind of female
orgasm takes a good amount time to build up to, and many women say that
it is a special, deep, intense carnal pleasure, that builds up until
their whole lower abdomen and pelvic area explodes. And they are often
carried away for a decent amount of time by the strong rush of euphoric
energy – often fully unconscious of where they are and what is happening
around them.
Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)
This
powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It
exercises unwanted emotions and fills a woman with light, delightful
energy and a feeling of happiness and peace. Squirting makes other kinds
of female orgasms look meek in comparison.
This type of orgasm
causes a deep bond to form between a woman and her partner. This has to
be the most sensual thing a woman can experience with you.
The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)
This
kind orgasm is reached by stimulating an area far deep in the vagina
(about 7-10 cm, or 3-4”) on the front wall – the same exact wall where
the G-spot is located. In other words, this is a section of delicate
tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, in between the cervix
and the bladder.
This orgasm is most easily achieved using your
hand. Use the same technique you use to stimulate the G-Spot, but in
this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. You simply just try to
“scoop it out” with your fingers – a “come hither” motion. In the basic
missionary position, a man should be short-thrusting while deep inside a
woman during sexual intercourse.
Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable while others do not like it at all, so be sure to keep this in mind.
After
orgasming, the A-Spot does not become sensitive like the clitoris, and
you can easily continue stimulation, bringing women to new levels of
pleasure. Again, communication is the key here, so make sure to ask her
if she is enjoying what you are doing.
This orgasm is described by
women as a type of soft burst of electricity bringing them to a sharp,
erotic climax. Some women find this orgasm similar to the G-spot, while
some find it closer to an extremely strong vaginal orgasm. Either way,
your partner will be excited about the fact that you even know about
this.
Watch out for the concluding part next week.
